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Our events welcome all; but only those who identify as a Woman may Top/Dominate during our events. If you do not identify as a woman, you cannot Top or Dominate at our events. Male-identifying persons will not be allowed to switch or Service Top at our events.

  • UPCOMING....

FLAIR Sponsored Cocktail Mixer at the LLC

September 24, 2022

Join FLAIR (Female- Led Authority Inspired Relationships) for an opportunity to "mix it up" and then "turn it out" with Women in Charge! We'll enjoy some cocktails before diving into some fun and sadistic twists to classic games all geared to delight and dazzle Women in Charge!

Come alone or with partner(s), as long as you cum...with FLAIR!

FLAIR'S Flood My Basement Party! at The Red Chair

Get WET with FLAIR! on October 22, 2022

Join FLAIR as we create a literal Masturbatorium perfect for any pervert at THE RED CHAIR. That's right, we're going to "Paddle the Pink Canoe" ALLLL Night for a special "PALMS" Play Party you won't soon forget. Doors open at 7:00PM as our nefarious night of pleasureous delights starts with a Genitorture Class presented by our very own PlaineJane at 8:00PM.

"The Ins & Outs of Genitorture: It ain't just fiddlin' your dillin' anymore!

PlaineJane will discuss the variations and options for genitorture including sexy ways to make your bits feel wet and warm with pain. No longer used as extreme measures of torture by what was traditionally seen and portrayed by Pro-Doms. Now, Women have options on how they conduct genitorture and whether to be sensual, sadistic or both.

Jane will discuss sensual as well as sexual options for genitorture and some sadistic twists to classic forms of CBT and genitorture. This demo will include breast, vaginal, cock & ball torture as well as time for Q&A. Jane will also provide safety tips, Do's and Don't You Dare!s that will provide a better understanding of how sensuality and trust can be wonderful tools in an intense genitorture scene.

Come with a box of gloves and a bottom if you got 'em to try out some of these fun ideas. This is genitorture that will keep you beating... yo' meat!"

But the pleasure doesn't stop there! As always, we'll have our fabulous FOOT WORSHIP STATION ready and waiting for your weary soles. Be ready to enjoy a relaxing or stimulating foot massage by well-trained and well- motivated foot enthusiasts who are eager to send your feet to pleasure- town.

But if Foot Worship isn't your thing, try our BUFFING STATION- back by popular demand! Come experience the sensual yet stimulating sensation of our seasoned and well trained buffers giving it to you! Wait, you've never been BUFFED? Then don't miss out on this extraordinary and thrilling sensual experience BOTH Top AND bottom can participate in all FREE OF CHARGE!

Don't have a bottom? No problem! We are introducing our very first EVAH MASTURBATION STATION, fully stocked with mood lighting, lube, and sensual oils; all in a private masturbation room that will allow you to RUB ONE OUT!

But don't blow your load just yet... at 10:00PM we'll also include a Guided Masturbation Experience that is sure to have you "singing soprano" in no time! Bring your five fingers and a towel if you want to enjoy making some beautiful music together... even if we're all playing solo.

As a special bonus, we'll be offering games and sexy prizes for sensual contests all night. So cum alone or with a partner, just as long as you cum for a little Slap and Tickle with plenty of FLAIR!

Please note that while this is a Red Chair PALMS Party, ALL FLAIR Rules are in effect. OUR EVENTS WELCOME ALL! However, male-identifying persons will not be permitted to Top, Switch or Service Top at our events but are welcome to attend. Only those that do NOT identify as Male may Top at FLAIR events.

Please make life easier for the front desk volunteers and PRE-REGISTER! Remember that doors open at 7:00PM, class starts at 8:00PM and the dungeon is open for play at 9:00PM-2:00AM.

Please visit the Red Chair Group page or contact them directly at: for information on how to attend the Red Chair and Event Registration details. Please note that FLAIR members may also message FLAIR to request information on how to become vetted to attend this special event.



  • Past Events:

FLAIR's Winter Wanna Play Mixer 

February 25, 2022


We chased away the winter blues with this free mixer featuring a mini class on “Pick up Play for Players” focused on negotiating and setting up scenes with intention. The class was followed by Speed Dating, which gave our guests an opportunity to try out the skills learned from our mini class. Stay tuned for details on our next mixer.


FLAIR's Feast of the Flesh

May 7, 2022

Our Feast of the Flesh party, hosted on a private beach, was a delicious day full of fun, fantasy, and fornication! We kicked off this all-day event with a “Creative Bondage for Shame and Exposure” class taught by -TwistedLily-, followed by “The ABCs of CNC”. A large and fully equipped play area was available for our guests, as well as stations for foot worship, human furniture rental, cigar service, and body buffing. But what’s fun without some games too? In an ultimate battle of the bottoms, s types competed in our Gauntlet of Guile to impress judges using only their wit and cunning to win. Finally, we rounded out the decadence of the day with a collection of local kinky toy and accessory vendors. Come check- out our next exciting event!


The FLAIR Cocktail Mixer at SELF

June 16, 2022

We mixed it up and turned it out at Southeast LeatherFest, hosting a sexy cocktail party! Signature cocktails and light snacks were served, along with some truly creative and sadistic party games geared toward Women in Charge! Don’t miss the next FLAIR event!


FLAIR's Women In Charge Roundtable at SELF

June 17, 2022

Our roundtable discussion at the Southeast LeatherFest, moderated by PlaineJane, focused on the different identities and expressions of Female Led dynamics in lifestyle communities. From Madam to Daddy, and every honorary in between, our panelists discussed and explored their own expressions and the language they use to suit their dynamics. Panelists included: MadamBunnyBlack, Nolovelost, Ms.Reemah, Queen Kate and Lady Kita. Stay tuned for details on our next interactive panel!

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